As pet lovers, I’m sure you’ve all experienced those times in life when you feel your pets are there for you just as much as you are for them. I know I sure have. Even when I was nursing Iva through the end of her journey with cancer, there were moments I just knew she was comforting me in my sadness as equally as I was comforting her. Caring for me, just as I was caring for her. Throughout the years I was blessed to have her in my life, it was always apparent to me that she was my caretaker too.
It’s a different journey with each animal who enters our life experience.
With Josephione, Iva’s Shepherd sister, who passed a mere 8 months after Iva, she helped me through the first years of my sobriety over a decade ago. There was so much joy in her, I simply couldn’t stray from choosing life over allowing my spirit to wither. She was a gift from the Universe, sent to keep me on track and right-minded…keep me living with a full heart.
Before Iva & Josephine, back in my Chicago days, there was Starlight. She was there for me through my 20s and into my 30s, when I was still trying to figure out what the point of it all is…this thing we do called life. I believe Star sent Josephine into my life to help me cope with the loss of her. I met Josie 6 months to the day after Star’s passing and they looked so similar it was almost eerie.
And now I have Miss Maggie May. My precious inheritance from my step-father, with whom I was very close. Technically, Mags is my step-sister…a gift in 2021. That year, I lost Iva, then Keith, then Josie. Maggie was meant to help me cope with those losses and the grief that came with them, and to bring me joy as I began the journey that has become Iva’s Place.
And the cats…the cats know too.
Every animal I’ve been blessed to share companionship throughout life has been able to read my energy, comfort me, and provide for me in the most difficult of times. How lucky we all are to be able to experience these bonds with the animals we love so deeply…truly something special.
As someone who will always be navigating the ups and downs of depression as I walk through life, it is never lost on me how crucial the therapy is that they provide for me. Always bringing me joy, even when I feel I don’t know what the word might mean anymore. Always.
Since I left teaching at Outlook to start Iva’s Place, I am more balanced than I've ever been in my life. Sure, I still have my days - that'll never go away - but I am able to move through them with a grace for myself that wouldn’t be possible were I not caring for all these wonderful little souls.
People often ask how I do it. How can I possibly find it peaceful to be caring for a house full of animals, each with their own quirky personalities, their own special needs…sometimes, a pack as large as 10, in addition to my own fur-kids. It took some time. I’ve made mistakes along the way, as will happen when starting a bold new adventure such as this, but, for the most part, it’s come easy…I wake up surrounded by love and bombarded with joy. I spend my days nurturing that and when all is said and done and the sun goes down, the house is quiet, peaceful, rejuvenated, and vibrating with all the feel-good energy from the day. I couldn’t ask for a better position in life than where I am right now.
Someone recently asked me if I mind spending my holidays “stuck” at home with the animals. Long answer short: NO. I’m not stuck at all. On the contrary, I’m flying high on life…it’s heaven, right here on Earth, right here at Iva's Place. This Christmas, and through the new year, we’ll have a house full of pure heart energy…what more could I ask for?
I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for trusting me to care for your beloved animals. 2023 was our first full year in business and, while I can’t pretend that this beginning has been without its glitches, I can say that I have upheld my promise to honor our core values to the best of my ability: care, commitment, compassion, and community. AND…I get free counseling from your pets every single day. Thank you for that.
So if, like me, you sometimes find yourself in a cloud of uncertainty, unwanted fears, or unwelcome thoughts, or if you happen to be someone who gets a little down over the holiday season, just remember…your therapist has a wet nose.
Merry Christmas, everyone. I wish you and your pets the happiest of holidays and all the love & joy they - and the world - have to offer throughout the coming year.
Thank you for allowing us to provide a home away from home for your precious animals. We couldn’t be more grateful for that gift.
Be well…and enjoy life.
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TL